What are the consequences of failure to answer children's questions about sex?

1 -evasion of questions no matter how embarrassing or awkward, no matter what the age of the son / daughter of a small or large, whatever the significance question or substance; because it is the children that the field of the field of sex scary and evil, Vttold has feelings of anxiety and confusion and rejection, and this is what some call the "repression", which might exceed the command influence on the look the boy / girl to the opposite sex.

To suppress the results of many other of fueling the sexual curiosity to turn to small COLOMBO inspector of mysterious things, looking for answers in every interview, every magazine, in reference and at the peer and servants, and if confronted by failure to reach conclusive answers to lose confidence in the small mental capacity, and disrupt the desire to have the knowledge to using its knowledge of indifference seems the boy / girl Kalmtkhalaf mental; because there are emotional factors handcuffed, mental, and lose confidence in young parents who fail in the face of spontaneous questions, and underlines that the psychologists of the consequences of repression .. Behavioral disorder, interest in excess and excessive use of children the subject of gender may lead to erratic, lying, and theft, as well as anxiety and aggression, and sometimes no-school discipline.

2 -Tnges Totimh sex, or as the sole purpose is reproduction, but there is one point must be the definition of boy / girl. Valjns reflects a couple of which about love, affection and compassion that brings them and longing for that which draws one to the other, and can bring this command from the perception of children on the basis of subjective experience, so they are told, for example, do not cross the Isarkm of love for your brothers to Palmeadap, and the word good, and smile, not to cross the mother's love for her children Baanadanhm and kiss, as well as couples have other means to express their feelings.

II: Conditions answer:

1 -appropriate age and the need for the son / daughter:

Since questions will be vigilant in accordance with the speed of the mental development of each child, according to the circumstances surrounding the birth of young children raises the question 3 - 4 - 5 years, love scenes on television gave rise to some other questions, hear the latest news: The issue of surrogacy raises questions from children the age of eight ... Etc.).

Required to respond to questions son / daughter in a timely manner and not delay it because of its harmful fluid loss of confidence, and wasting a golden opportunity to engage in the subject, where the son is enthusiastic and receptive for what it offers him the largest share of assimilation and satisfaction.

There is no need at all to inform him without motive; because in this case would be ready to absorb and respond to much lower; and therefore the answer starting point is the conception of the child itself, which we explained our part, correct, complete lack of it and elaborated.

* Example: for children from 3 - 6 years

Child: Where do children go out, Mama?

Educator: What do you think?

Child: the mother's abdomen doctor to shove a sword.

Jam: Have you seen the doctor, never carrying a sword?

Child: no.

Educator: God creates a certain slot for the mother to help

Born out of the mother's abdomen.

Child: Where is she?

Educator and simply: a hole next to the urine, but it is not the same slot.

So starting the perceptions of the Son, Mstdrgen him to thinking and analysis in the light of experience and owned by the logic, and then provide the needed information in a simplified form suitable for mental absorbed without lengthening or complexity of the expression and tone are normal, such as used in any other media, even son to understand the field of sexuality is part of normal life.

2 -Integrated:

In the sense of limited education here on the physiological and anatomical information; because curiosity Jr. Beyond that,

, But that link should remain in this pleasure within their (marriage) in order to gain reward from Allah Boys were aware at an early age is very pleasure associated with his genitals and needs is a sense of security, a sense of recognition of the existence of family pleasure and the sexual energy, but with clarification and guidance to pleasure necessarily remain in the framework

3 - continues:

There was an error committed, namely, the belief that sex education is a combination of information that will give a one-time once and it's over, and that it refers to the desire of adult the completion of the duty to "spam" as soon as possible, but must be given information on payments in various forms (once by the user - video - studied the mosques ... etc.), to take root in his mind and gradually be absorbed and awareness to cope with the growth of his mind.

4 -In an atmosphere of quiet talk show:

Change the Apostle of the main conditions for proper sex education, Valtmrs to establish a dialogue full of quiet love, sex theme is addressed through him, to help sponsor children to gain access to a proper understanding of the dimensions of "sex" and access to sexual maturity.